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Non-gay Redditors who have had gay-sexual experienses. How was it, and how did you end up in that situation?
- Some kid in middle school asked me if my mom knew I was gay and I told him "no" without thinking and ever since that day there's nothing I could do to change it back.
— TesticleMeElmo
- Does a minute of passionate making out with a butt grab count?
Was out drinking with a group of friends when one mentioned that she wanted to see two guys making out someday. Gay guy friend offered to let her watch him if he could find someone. I was the slowest at saying "not it" and got compensated with free drinks for the evening.
Being roughly the same height is nice, facial hair is weird, embracing a guy feels different. Broader, more muscular and less delicate feeling.
Edit: grammar
— Bobs_porn_alt
- For a year or two I had curiosities. On top of that if I had the right mix of alcohol and weed in my system it seemed that there was no longer a line between genders. And further more I had these recurring dreams of giving a blowjob. So one Saturday morning I woke up very horny. Said fuck it and made a Grindr account.
I got more messages in 30 minutes than I did in a year of Tinder/Bumble. I don't find men attractive so I went for the ones who weren't ugly and fat. Now I know what women feel like as I was bombarded with unsolicited dick pics. Not sure how many people I messaged, but I was up front about being straight but curious. Apparently straight men are like a unicorn to gay men.
So I give a guy my addy and he comes over. I offer him a bong rip and a drink. I've been smoking and sipping tequila since I woke up. At this point I'm enjoying everything because there is no coy bullshit that goes on with women. I told a stranger I wanted to have sex, and he came over. Once he got here we went straight to the bedroom and got naked. Something felt off so we stopped after a few minutes. We just chilled for a little bit and watched some TV and chatted. Then an overwhelming horniness came over me. Back to the bedroom.
He wanted it rough and wanted to be treated like a whore. That alone is huge turn on for me. As he sucked my dick I asked him if he wanted his ass fucked. So I grabbed a condom and bent him over. Funny part is from behind he looked just like a female. He even went further and kept screaming "fuck my pussy." We finished up and went back to chilling. About and hour later we had sex again. For about the next month he messaged me every weekend wanting to hook up again, but I just wasn't feeling it.
The best part is that I have no idea what his name is.
I enjoyed it, but like I said, I don't find men attractive. I like a feminine figure...and boobs, boobs too. Now I'm curious to try sex with a transgender person.
tl;dr Curiosity led me to make a Grindr account. Dirty whore came to my house and I fucked him twice. Never got his name.
— crunch816
- Bunch of clubbing chicks chipped in 400$ to watch me and another dude make out for a solid minute in the middle of the club. Hell yes, free drinks for my crew that night!
— I_like_PnutButter
- A friend went to hand me something once, but instead of just *tossing it* to me like a man, he handed it to me. As I was taking it from him, our fingers touched.
In all honesty, turning gay wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, but we've never mentioned that day since.
— coupland
- got really drunk and high one night and let a gay friend jerk me off. he asked me to touch his dick and I did but wasn't into it and stopped. but I nutted from his handjob, so I have that going for me, which is nice. At least I can say I gave it a shot and it's not for me.
— fuck_yes_throwaway
- My roommate and I have a system. I wash the dishes, he lets me blow him.
— alectprasad
- Friend invited me to a threesome with his girlfriend. Seemed to be mostly about both having sex with his girlfriend. I did it and was actually a little surprised that they both were into me sexually. Didnt do much with my friend sexually but explored a group vibe. I remember feeling like it was a lot of hands an faces. We kissed a decent bit and had sex with his girlfriend who is rather sexy. Wholesome experience overall we all get along well. Really nice people.
— DiscipleofBeasts
- Ughhh. 10 years ago, traveling for work, in a hotel room, horney. Some HBO show was on, a series I think, that had lots of pretty explicit gayness loving. Yeah I yanked it.
— tomatosoupsatisfies
- I met my doppelganger. He was gay, super into me, and (at the risk of sounding full of myself) also one of the most attractive men I have ever met.
I figured "this is a once in a lifetime opportunity" and invited him back to my place. The sex was actually pretty disappointing, but at least I can say now that I fucked my doppelganger.
— sweater-baron
- One of my best friends came out in highschool, and I didn't really think much of it other than being surprised (he's a big burly black dude who always seemed like the alpha). Well after we graduated we were having a small shindig at a friends house, and since we all were drinking everyone slept there. When we were lying on the pull out couch, he asked me if he could give me a bj just because he wanted to suck some dick. I figured, why the hell not. I'll tell you what, gay guys give some amazing head. I still prefer women overall, but I'm not against the occasional bj from a guy. It happened a few more times over the years, and one day I kind of figured I'd give it a shot since I enjoy receiving, maybe I would enjoy giving as well. That was the day I figured out I'm definitely not gay, I just didn't realize it until I had a dick in my mouth. I still don't know what that makes me, exactly, because I feel like I'd definitely be down for an MMF threesome. But I won't know until I try it I guess. I've just been keeping an open mind about it since then.
— inclination64609
- I watched gay porn once to see how it works
— 2martin4u