If you discovered your best friend was gay and sexually attracted to you, how would it affect your relationship?
- He'd be swallowing my pride.
— GeckoFlameThrower - My best friend is of the opposite sex, so I would be very confused.
— PM_BUTT_IN_UNDERWEAR - My best friend is already gay but his standards aren't that low. If he was attracted to me I'd just make the boundaries clear.
— Smoking_Hot_BBQ - I'd simply explain to him that I don't roll that way but I love him for who he is and I'll still be his best friend if he can get past it.
— ex_sanguination - Story of my life. Turned out I was also gay and it all worked out.
— crispy111 - Part of being gay is realizing your straight friends you've fallen in love with will never return the same feelings. It sucks and it hurts but we do it to ourselves.
If I told a straight friend I was in love with him, as long as he didn't flip out and cut ties I think it'd be ok. I'd be sad and hurt but not nearly as badly as if I'd lost a friend too.
But I don't think I could ever do that, tell a straight friend I loved him. It's obviously not going to work out so it's a little selfish to jeopardize our friendship so I can take a chance on him being bi...and interested.
— neonchinchilla - I'd feel betrayed because he told me all those brojobs were just us having good old fashioned fun and nothing more.
— Elhaym - I'd yell "fucking finally" and immediately hook up with her.
— anderswasright - I'm bi and she's hot, so I'd totally date her. But she's in a long-term relationship (with a guy), so I don't think this would ever happen.
— Girl_Who_Rips_Stuff - One of my best friend is gay and I most likely would have sex with him if he asked. He's not into me though.
— AhsokaRey1138 - id find ways to flex and bend over to pick up items more
— thugnificientx3