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What are some nonweird ways for a guy to meet girls in person?
- Order Chinese food and ask out the delivery girl
Source: am lonely delivery girl
— Oluja
- Focus on doing things you enjoy until you meet a girl who seems to be enjoying the same things you like. You will instantly have something to talk about. Going to concerts early for instance, you can talk to a lot of people pretty easily, everyone is excited for the same thing, share some drinks, whatever. Just have fun with your life and take an interest in other people.
— Snax_Attax
- The ideal circumstances are somewhere people go, you ain't gonna meet anyone if you're there alone right? But ideally somewhere where the people who go there are predominantly female, firstly it will eliminate the competition you get in clubs and bars where men are usually the majority and secondly by virtue of being a minority as a man you'll instantly stand out and be noticed. Next there needs to be an activity involved in the place, if both you and the girl are doing the same thing you instantly have an ice-breaker either asking for or offering advice or simply asking how it is going. Finally you need to look approachable, flash them a smile or if you're brave give them a cheeky wink, then don't push it return to the activity for a bit before approaching and starting the conversation, this gives them time to drift away if they're not interested so you're not pressurising them and also makes it look like you're mostly there for the activity in question and meeting them was a happy coincidence rather than just being there looking to hook-up.
To this end, to meet all the above criteria, I suggest hanging out in the feminine hygiene aisle of your local supermarket, filling your basket with tampons and winking at any ladies who happen to pass you.
— be_my_plaything
- Cooking class. Dance class. I guarantee if you go to either one of those you *will* meet women, and the bonus is that you'll be a better cook/dancer as well.
— no_talent_ass_clown
- I met my girlfriend at work. I saw her smoking one day and joined her. We made small talk. The next day she came to my desk and asked for a lighter so we simply started taking cigarette breaks together and I asked her to go to lunch a few days later, turned into a 5 hour lunch break we sat in the same booth for 5 hours just talking while time had completely escaped us and 3 years later we're still together and I'm buying an engagement ring within the month.
— ChadlikesMilfs
- Find yourself a hobby that has a mixed public. When you meet people, casually talk about the hobby, take it from there.
Women don't like feeling like you are there to pick up women. But they do like a guy who is passionate about something.
I know it's counterintuitive, but once you stop trying so hard it become easier.
Desperate guys stink and guys who are on the look-out are creepy.
If you can't manage that, get on an online dating-site.
— Amii25
- Get a dog. Walk the dog.
— louierosner
- I started volunteering. Find something you believe in and think is important and go there to volunteer for once a week or so. You’re guaranteed to find other people who have similar values and some of them might be a similar age and some of them might be interesting.
— TheBioethicist87