What do you want your ex to know?

1. That I miss the dog more.
   — yoyo100fr


2. That a lot of who i am is because of him. Ive learnt to love, be a good partner, and be kind because my first boyfriend was a kind, gentle guy. It sucks that things couldn't work out between us, but i still cherish the time we spent together.
   — madcat63


3. I really hated that we had to learn the "dont have sex with or date your friends" rule with each other.
   — little_foxes






4. That not telling me her reasons for breaking up with me is making this 10x worse Edit: thanks for all the comments guys, we're all in this together.
   — AllThatYouTouch


5. That I know, as very few people in her life do, that she hates herself and isn't happy. And that the things she hates herself for are untrue and meaningless. And that she is a beautiful, smart, funny and truly valuable woman with a life of great success ahead of her. And she *deserves* every bit of it.
   — 2midgetsinaduster


6. You cheated on me? After I specifically asked you *not* to?
   — doctor_parcival






7. I’m over you but not the abuse. I still think about it years after the fact and it sickens me that you can treat your current SO with respect and go on with life like you didn’t treat me like trash. I don’t know what was so wrong with me that I couldn’t be treated like a human being but it’s also good that you’ve grown up I guess. You’re still an asshole, though. And to another one of my exes - I truly think the reason you’ll never be happy is because you’re just as horrible as the people you say you hate. I know you asked an old friend of mine for nudes because she told me and I saw it. I know you talked about my insecurities with your friends and laughed at me with them. You were sad that I left you for someone else but the reason you’ll always be single is because you’re a bad person inside and out. Using your internet popularity to get people to attack me when we broke up was low. I’ve lost many friends because of that and haven’t heard from many people since. So... you can go fuck yourself.
   — unimportant-trwaway


8. I'm sorry for forwarding your address to all your creditors. Especially after you quit your job, went on vacation and asked me to continue making payments on all your bullshit. Oh! And repossessing *my* car from you. That was kind of rude looking back, right?!
   — evil95


9. That I hope he recognizes his toxic behaviors and doesn't repeat the same patterns over and over. I wasn't able to directly tell him each but, I was too non confrontational, and frankly, weak.
   — aerodynamicvomit






10. I’ve learned my worth.
    — Newsletter94


11. Anything she wants. The hurt and confusion and heartbreak is gone. Now, we're just two strangers trying to survive. So, I want her to know I wish for her to have a good life.
    — Fongua


12. That I resent the fact that he learned to be a better person using me as a stepping stone. It's not fair that I had to suffer in order for him to realize the error of his ways. And that I hope he's treating his new girlfriend well.
    — VladimirVeins






13. I know we didn't date for long, we weren't talking because I just wanted to be friends, but I wish you didn't take your life. It hurts every day. I miss you.
    — SuperSaiyanGrace